The Cheating Woman

Guys have a weird way of dealing with infidelity. They act like they are the supreme court, trying to figure out every bit and piece in the case and then reach a final verdict as if the entire nation’s future depends on their monogamous relationship working out.

When the woman is out they call her repeatedly to ask where, with who, for what. Now I see some of them even asking for the lady’s whatsapp location. Key loggers have always been around. I think the next stage would in this love survelliance program would be to install a firewall at home, enable SSL inspection and do a packet capture. Something I’d try myself for sure. Works for the learning too.

While I understand a guy watching out for his interests with such snooping, I’d at least recommend doing it covertly without the lady of the house knowing. Once the whole thing is out in the open to where you ASK her all those above questions, you might as well walk out than listen to a female hamster spin.

And while you are conducting the one man NSA program don’t forget to draw a line on how many times you want to put in the effort.

Having said this, do you even want to know? Most guys so miss that the fact that she’s done something to make him feel as if she is cheating is enough. End it. Show her the door. It doesn’t even matter if she’s actually tasted some other dude’s cock yet! The fact that set your instincts off like that is more than enough. But most guys insist on proof, might as well wait for the video to be up on pornhub for fuck’s sake.

But it’s understandable guys wanting to hold on to the fact that they are going to be proven wrong. Let’s fact it. As a man it’s fucking hard to get women. And depending on the tons of other factors unique to your circumstances—country, income, social circle, age. Things do not become easy.

It is because of this insecurity of “not finding someone else” or “as good as her” or “the best I can do” that most guys hide behind the charade of “finding proof” that their sweetheart bae is infact sucking some side dick. They want their suspicions to be false. They need them to be false.

So how much exactly is forgivable in this? What if she lies about meeting her mom and just meets her ex bf, but didn’t “do” anything? And you find out because your friend saw her with so and so. Acceptable?

I think most men today are confused about women on the whole. They are being braninwashed with feminism’s drum banging with platitudes like “women too can just have sex”. Nope, not at all the way men can.

This is not to argue that women do not like or enjoy sex, which is the spin most feminists try to put on a position like this so they can then beat it in argument. Age old straw man theory.

I want to take this from the position that the very fact that a woman would have sex with a guy, talking about the horny-fucking-like-rabbits-sex and not the lying deadfish-i-am-here-do-what-you-gotta-do-sex which they give to their arranged marriage husbands. The very fact that she wanted to fuck a guy that much is proof of the underlying love, emotions and respect she has for him.

This is very far from the pointless pussy men can indulge in. Simply look at the biomechanics here.

Women are not built for meaning-emotion-respect less fucking. The testosterone(T) is missing. An average male has 18 times more T than the most physically fit woman on the planet. The whole feminist meme that she just saw a guy, was turned on with the abs and fucked him. Simply does not stand.

In fact there’s an entire other meme which supports this. The meme that women always end up fucking a guy in the drunk state or in an emotional turmoil. Situations in which it’s easy to work her up to the fuck. Just makes her both bold and weak at the same time making her chase the physical gratification.

A sober woman cheating simply means that the guy she ended up fucking had a sense of humor, an emotional bond was formed and there was comfort. You can throw in the looks factor in there too.

But think about it, if looks played a major role than most women would be cheating all the fucking time—simply because of the high no. of hits even an average unfuckable fat monster woman gets every single day of her life. You bet a lot of those guys are the “good looking” type however you define good looks.

But that simply isn’t how it works. An emotional bond formed over a sense of humor and wit earns a woman’s respect, lot faster than simple toned abs and stronglift shoulders.

And a woman’s sincere heartfelt attraction always comes with respect. This sounds all old fashioned and outdated now because the left liberal feminist culture has turned the narrative very well. But evolution and biology are not turned that easy.

They can brainwash the minds of people using the establishment infrastructure—schools, universities, media, NGOs, governments but human instincts which evolved over millions of years, which has kept the race alive cannot be simply turned off. That explains their repeated failure to get men all hot and crazy for the fat whales and the cock carousel riding sluts—simply not going to happened.

Getting to conscious minds of the people is easy for the left. They have huge power with the estabishment infrastructure and hence are able to get to young minds right in the schooling years. And given how most parents especially mothers are just the by products of that establishment system, the kids grow up eating all the dogma of the left having never questioned it.

At the end you have grown women all shocked and surprised when they learn in their let’s get married years that most men don’t seem to dig promiscous women.

And men who are suprised that they were afterall not so okat letting their wife fuck someone else.

The survival instinct of which reproduction is an integral part rages through a man, while his liberal indoctrinated brain fights a losing battle to remain true to the feminist dogma “women are has horny as men”.

His million year old instincts to pass on his genes to live forever through them are firing away because they see that his only at that immortality—a child through his woman is in danger. Or might not be his. This he cannot take lightly. Not in 200 BC or in 2017.

While the philosophical debate of whether our childrean are really a way to immortality will always go on, man’s survival instinct simply does not know any better. Probably why sex is so much fun and people will go to great lengths for it.

Hence the woman cheating in a relationship or the sudden feminist cultural support for open marriages isn’t about women having high libidos—not in most cases but just a setup to convince the man to remain as a productive partner while she gets the sex she really wants from the men she really respects and to convince him that her lust for the extras is just a physical gratification with no real roots in her respect and admiration.

Prostitution will save Men

The funny part is a lot of guys seem averse to the idea of paying for fucking. It’s the same “wanting sex from women is wrong” training these modern men have received their entire lives at work here. The natural instinct of wanting a woman for casual sex only and getting a whore once in a while today to most men probably feels like rape. Oh and just an hour back I got called a “psycho” by my good childhood friends for having the balls to flirt with a girl I had never spoken to before in my life.

A rape is happening every second if you ask me — of boys by the dickless monster called feminism.

The narrative of female objectification has gone so far now that any action by a man which could imply that the said man wants to fornicate with the said female is an act of female sexual objectifcation, which we know they hate so much.

Another parallel narrative which is far more superior than any is that women are just inherently better than men just by the virtue of being women.

I think it is this one which makes all the rest possible. Why else would sane normal men doubt and think that paying a woman for consenting sex is a sin against her? For the simple reason that in their heads it is established that no woman could ever do something as degenerate as sell herself for fun and profit but a rather sad backstory exists — a sick child, poverty, whatever. That every action of a woman is motivated by some higher purpose and good and no woman would chase mere materialistic wealth by fucking for cash.

Hmmmm..Clearly yeah, there is an unfortunately sad situation here—that 36" ass which she likes handled well.

Amazing how the feminist narrative contradicts itself. Let’s the call the fem monster F and play Q&A with it.

F:women are as horny as men,
so that means they love getting fucked right?
F:No that’s misogyny and objectification.
F:Women have rights to their bodies…
so they have a right to sell it for money, right? and you said they’re horny too that sounds perfect!
F:no NO woman would ever do that,  that’s exploitation by men.
F:women are ambitious, want a career, money and success too
exactly and some choose to get it by fucking men
F: no those are the victims of circumstances mostly created by men and patriarchy.

*slow clap*

I think their confusion and anger with prostitution comes from the fact that it’s an too overt and direct exchange of sex than they’d like to witness. This is because they all know at an subconscious level that they are indulging in it.

As Rollo Tomassi of the TheRationalMale says it, as a Man you will always be paying for sex. If it isn’t straight up cash then it’s in the form of dates, dinners and gifts, if it’s not that then it’s
your charming personality, looks and wit, if you are bald, fat and ugly then it’s probably your beta bucks for provisioning of her and her offspring. If it’s still neither of these then it’s the good mighty fucking you giver her which most guys today won’t because that would be “objectifying her”.

The transaction must happend and it’s not a bad thing at all, without it there would be no fucking.

But the anger with the prostitution method is that the Man is the initial initiator of that transacation. It is the Man deciding to get up and walk up to the market to spefically buy sex from a woman and the said woman has no option but to say yes because that’s her job.

While in the civilized romance coated version of it, the final say is still the woman’s. In fact the feminine imperative has an entire social convention of “wait for when she’s ready”, “give her time” etc. all set up to make sure women hold the final call and Men are convinced that “this is how it is” and wait like an idiot while she’s evaluating all other options. While for the Man on the other end it is the dreaded yet funny friend zone.

The fem culture also feels threatened because prostitution undercuts the illusion that being chosen by a woman as a partner is some life altering surreal experiene or a statement on your value as a Man. In fact if anything, it’s often the case that the most bottom feeding scumbags are the ones who get mighty laid and rewarded by the very women who claim to hate them in favor of nice guy qualities.

Prostitution if left all alone and allowed to expand freely might end this illusion and prove to the Men that what they miss so badly and lack in life is probably a good fucking from time to time and not a woman’s company or emotional presence, which somehow can magically bring them any more happiness than they would have without her in life. It might open Men’s eyes to the fact that the primary gain from pairing with a woman is purely physical and sexual and does not meet any higher motives like companionship which is how the fem culture currently sells monogamy to men.

To prevent this prostitution must be reigned in by legal laws under the pretext of “saving women” but laws only achieve so much and hence it becomes necessary to engineer shame and guilt in Men on a personal and psychological level to keep them from even entertaining the thought.

I would argue a step further that if you were to just pick a fav among prostitutes and indulge in her regularly she would probably meet the emotional sides of the fucking equation better than most wives and girlfriends. She’d probably actually listen than just act like she is listening. Of course the requirement for this is top physical health on your side which I believe becomes very important to keep a whore’s sexual attraction. From the sheer number of fatasses she fucks in her line of work, believe me having some semblance of muscle and a flat belly will do wonders for you in this. She will indeed give you her best. And if you are stupid and fall in love with her then you are on your own.

BUZZFEED's Sex Loving Indian Women—Part 1

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The Feminine Imperative’s (FI) greatest weapon is confusion.

So I read a BUZZFEED post — "indian women love to casually fuck too" and the first thing that crossed my mind is ..who would have FUCKING THOUGHT that the “respect women” platitude they keep shoving into our faces so many times a day, actually also includes “respect that women love to be casually fucked” clause. I mean we all thought that respecting them meant always thinking of them as good, honest, epitome of morality beings AND the biggest one being not fucking dare OBJECTIFY THEM. NEVER to approach/court/flirt openly especially publicly because THAT FUCKING WOULD MEAN OBJECTIFICATION YOU FUCKING MISOGYNIST PIG. Then it means always give them their time with everything and wait for them to come around. NEVER to doubt their intentions and always just trusting them and encouraging them, NEVER to judge their actions, I mean it’s obviously not her fault, like we already established the fact that women are the epitome of moral behavior.

BUT THEN (..goes my testosterone sex crazed brain) .. if they do love sex as much as I do then it should be totally okay when I go approach her in public, which then means she’s totally okay with me just treating her as fuckmeat ,.I mean she’s doing the same about me, right? How come all men who have the balls to that are then misogynist pigs who treat women wrong?

DAMNN I can’t even begin to imagine how a teenager coming out of school will deal with this contradicting garbage the FI is feeding him. In the old world order or an ideal one their fathers and brothers would probably teach them this but with third wave feminism upon us like the curse of locusts from the bible, they are already martyrs to the same FI and perpetuate the same dogma ..“women, eh,,can’t understand them” subscribing to some “women are mysterious” trope we have always had in culture.

But there’s hope for those who yearn for the truth, as there’s always been. They will probably find their path, some will probably end up here as well. And of course I don’t want to make it look like few links will bring you salvation and set you free, but they are a lot more than most men will ever have as they march their way to the FI gas life chamber.

It’s such an amazing flexibility that the very FI which lambasts men for being sex junkies, poisoned with testosterone is also making fun of them for being complete pussies for getting too attached too soon just after a little casual sex. (They even put it in a cool quotation box like this right in their posts, fuck need to learn that.)

Again it’s worth highlighting how ruthless the FI is, I did this before with bacchi karkaria. Reverse the sexes and try imagining a man writing about all women he fucked getting clingy and how they file rape cases when not being called back. .FUCKING OUTRAGE. Fuck, you don’t have to imagine it, we already have a case where feminists destroyed two men’s livelihood for daring to tell us how they fucked 50+ girls and how most of them were no good for anything else.

And again I just want to hammer the effect this has on really young men. It is in this world we have 16yr old guys shamed and put down for being born with a dick since they turned ten, trying to figure out W T F IS GOING ON. Is it then any wonder I have guys inching close to 30 talking about the dark knight, assassins dick and going to "woohoo" to metal smashing transfaggers.   

But all is not lost for them and for others, as it’s been said before the internet is for men what women’s lib was for women, we now have a global network of men sharing notes and conclusions on how to better navigate life around these conflicting messages of the FI and how not only to survive but thrive in it.

Class is in session.

Casual SEX

So do women love casual sex or not? Guys want an yes or no answer to this, given their analytical problem solving nature, but the answer is neither. Write this down, women fucking want different things at different times in their lives. Young and beautiful babe in her early 20s from a western values family background with minimum religious indoctrination and maximum freedoms, yeah she’ll fuck you and some other guys on the side..NBD. The same girl when she’s 28? You bet she wants something more than just A-Grade-porn-star fucking, as we see here:

And yes she'll probably cheat if she's been fucked a LOT before she married you. And huffington post carrying that article, it'll be gone the moment their FI bosses call up so you should just google that.

Nothing to bat an eye when the leaders of feminism have this advice for our gals:

    “When looking for a life partner, my advice to women is date all of them: the bad boys, the cool boys, the commitment-phobic boys, the crazy boys. But do not marry them. The things that make the bad boys sexy do not make them good husbands. When it comes time to settle down, find someone who wants an equal partner. Someone who thinks women should be smart, opinionated and ambitious. Someone who values fairness and expects or, even better, wants to do his share in the home. These men exist and, trust me, over time, nothing is sexier.”

    ― Sheryl Sandberg, Lean In: Women, Work, and the Will to Lead

Men are piggs eh??

The article kinda also wants to tell us how ALL women enjoy casual sex with ALL men—WRONG. The choice of guys they want to fuck brings us to the next part.

Who are these super emo Guys?

Men see two genders — Men and Women. Women see three — Alphas, Betas and Women. I think you should write this down as well.

The men this chick is so frustrated about totally fall in the #2 gender category she can see, I am also pretty sure these guys are getting the kind of sex where they later go . .“i got lucky” with their buddies, and not “ohh fuck.. do i fuck this girl or go home and sleep,,,got work tomorrow, ,ah ok..ill make it a quick one”, I bet you their lives are nothing like this. In fact the thing which is really frustrating these women is buyer’s remorse. Here’s what google says:

Buyer's remorse is the sense of regret after having made a purchase. It is frequently associated with the purchase of an expensive item such as a car or house. It may stem from fear of making the wrong choice, guilt over extravagance, or a suspicion of having been overly influenced by the seller.

PU definition:

In PU, Buyer’s Remorse happens when the game was not played properly, such as skipping comfort, gaming a drunk girl, or doing something that would otherwise jeopardize the long term sexual relationship with the girl beyond a ONS.

Here’s what yareally says:

ehhhh not the best thing to have said. The pervert/slut teases were cute, like an inside joke with you guys, but after she’s acted like a slut she needs to feel like you aren’t going to judge her for being a slut…so comments like “knew I was going to insert my dick” blah blah are like “I knew you were a slut the second I saw you” which can trigger her Buyer’s Remorse.

So they’re just upset to have fucked two boring pussies who they for some reason perceived to be hotNalpha. The girls themselves would have called the guys back had they not advertised their scarcity needy “once more...please?” mentality to them lol. But now they did and are beta bitches “who can’t fathom that a woman can just fuck for fun” ..that’s just her conscious society trained empowered brain, reality is more like “omg..12 txt msgs!, .. its not even 11am, ewww”.

Now I am also shocked this chick is surprised that men are immediately falling in love with her after sex while she’s working at Buzzfeed, which is now to me an FI manifesto creating better betas with every post.  Here’s one where a dude is all for grown dudes crying:

I MEAN FUCKING SERIOUSLY?. .YOU COMPLAINING ABOUT GUYS ACTING LIKE BITCHES ON THE VERY SAME PAGES WHERE YOU ARE “ALL FOR MEN CRYING”. .Go back to my starting sentence on FI’s biggest weapon being confusion.

THREE DECADES of telling men to get in touch with their feminine side and now they’re shocked that these guys have forgotten the beauty and peace of a casual fuck. Add to that the daily shaming of men for trying to hit gym as “still trying to live the college life”, “men don’t grow up” and heck if the poor bastard is not married by 29 then all this + “is he gay?”. They denigrate anything remotely masculine and then tell us men have become pussies. Of course they do want the masculinity back when third world masculine men who they themselves brought in are raping and killing, lol. But that’s for another post.

It’s also so funny that she doesn’t think for a sec that probably the guys had real feelings for her, I mean for all the fucking leeway we give to women for being soft, emotional and tender. Here we see one reminding Milo 200 times that women are so “soft and take things to heart”, nothing of that here but instead her conclusion is that “indian men can’t handle women having casual sex”. No doll, his conditioning told him that showing his vulnerable side is the way to your heart, which he was taught has a lot more value than anything else on your body, because women are so much more than just sex objects and men are such pigs for only wanting sex.. right?.. .he respects women.. duh!.

I used to take this lightly but now I am pretty sure that there are guys out there, even young 21 yr old horny dudes who believe on a MORALITY level that wanting to just have sex with a girl is JUST WRONG as in the way we would talk about stealing as wrong, and the fact that they are going to be married to one these “Women can have sex like men” dolls and go down the blue valentine path, ..fuck makes me so fucking sad. Here even while writing this I was graced with this gem:

So you see we are all evil motherfuckers after these poor dames, a million guys probably got this on their screens and are going to make a mental subconscious note of it in the "how girls are" dept of their psyche as they put their smartphones down and pick up their joysticks.
 

Orbiter Status check

Some days ago I was sort of texting 3 chicks. Just the usual trying to setup a date, Trying to spin them plates and for some reason it just kept not happening. They’d make some excuses when i gave them a time for a date and when they’d give me a time i’d definitely turn it down, that’s my way of being like Diogenes with chicks. Obviously chicks are no Alexander though.

So the texting went back and forth, obviously it was no fun and at times excruciatingly boring. Obviously none of these chicks read anything ever, i just didn’t know what to say to them.

And so in between trying to set up dates I’d just go silent for 1-2 days in between, it was both a strategy to limit my texting them and just plain convenience, i obviously had no time to text them during both work followed by gym days.

And girl 1 and 2 both pulled of this weird trick. Of course they two totally separate people and strangers to each other. What they both did is, they both dropped me just “Good night” straight at night around 11PM. Not a single text in the last 30-35hrs but suddenly just this one text.

See this:

Orbiting can happen in a variety of ways. Orbiting is basically any relationship she keeps going long term without the intention of letting things go further.

It could be a text relationship. You meet a girl and exchange numbers. You text her to hang out, but she is busy.

Yet she still indicates interest. So you text her every once in awhile. And she keeps leading you on, without any intention to ever meet up.

I can’t find a link to a post which had a line which said, girls will send a beacon your way once in awhile just to check up on you. HAHA! In my own field of network engineering the Ping comes to mind. They’re just testing for a response and once they have it they feel safe maybe. Safe in the knowledge that yes at least mike likes me.

Here’s more:

The simple way to never become an orbiter is to ESCALATE. Always be physically moving on to the next step.

The problem is that women are crafty motherfuckers. They’ll avoid hanging out with you in a place where sex could happen—namely your place or hers. That gives her full reign when you escalate in public for her to say, “Not here!”

And then, when it’s time to go back to your place or hers somehow she’s feeling tired, sick, has to be up early or is on her period.

And then the next day she starts with the breadcrumbs. She texts you flirty, friendly messages as if she likes you. She’ll talk with you in different ways, meet up with you, confide in you and make you feel like you’re her boyfriend—except for the sex of course. Welcome to orbiterville.

By now it’s clear I am heading to orbitville, but hey I did not spend million hours reading rational male, redpill, chateau and the game and yareally just to end up as a slave to her majesty’s beauty. In fact I just now play along to see how far they exactly take and how, it’s good reference experience and blogging material if nothing else.

I can go on about how to break out from the orbit but I've shared enough resources if you really want to learn all this. I’ll just add and tell you again to be like Diogenes with women. Yes they are beautiful creatures and can melt you with it and have tremendous power over you, at least it feels so but once you understand that it’s mostly your testosterone doing all the work and you get it that they don’t really want that power you will be able to get her off that pedestal and be truly equal with her and only then you will be able to peel away the long hair, beautiful skin, the curves of her breast and thighs, the softness of it all and her childlike mannerisms and expressions and a good 90% of the time you will see a bored to death and boring as hell sjw-liberal-feminist selfie machine, surgical attached to her smartphone.

How Women Are — Case Study #1

A friend of a friend, lets call him Rocky is(was?) dating Priya. Now Priya was highly overweight when they met and Rocky is somewhat of an Natural-circumstantial-Alpha. I say somewhat because he's not fully acquired that mindset yet, and circumstantial because being born in a poor family pushed him out to see some fucking horrible circumstances, add to that going to a third rate school, a poor neighborhood and by his teen years he was a lets-fuck-shit-up-i'ma-break-your-teeth alpha street cad.

Just put him in standard not-afraid-to-fight bad boy gang.

Priya was around 19 when they met. Dangerously overweight at 110KGs(or more) and a standard daddy's girl, good for Rocky the daddy is rich. She brought her car out, paid for everything as always the case with alphas, in exchange he fucked her. This motivated her so much she dedicated herself to lose the weight and in 2years cut out 28KGs or so I saw—Fucking unbelievable.

It's been a 6year long thing now and Priya is engaged to guy who works abroad, they marry sometime soon. This devastated our alpha and there were some tears and mopping around for a while, a common friend B was so shocked he asked the universe in his naivete "This was a serious relationship, how can she just walk away like that, rocky muuusssst fight for her".

A woman displays perfect hypergamic timeline and most men witnessing it are still blind spectators, instead the blame comes down to our alpha cad for "not fighting for her". Actually when you talk to these boys over a few drinks, they do get what hypergamy is but once when they're again out into the world it just doesn't register with them at their conscious level. The life long beta training simply is too overwhelming to analyze a hypergamic chick's behavior on the fly, add to that the cute smiles and the seducing head movements and you have guys as brainwashed as the ones who'd blow themselves up for some virgin angels, the worst part is these men believe women here on earth are as good as angels. 

This case is a sea of Game and RedPill knowledge, let's take a dive.

• Alphas get more than give—money, time even 28kgs of sacrifice.
• All girls love the bad boy fighter, hot ones, short ones, fat ones—all of them, they're wired for it. And hence by extension. And don't you forget.
• Short term alpha fucks, long term beta bucks is a very much unconscious plan for the modern empowered woman, watch-the-fuck-out.
• The natural alpha himself wasn't "getting it", was moping around for a few days, later at a bar once it seems he did get it. Like a harbinger of wisdom his words were "girls want the bad boys a lot more than the nice good guys, why else would a girl like priya who's getting married to an almost fucking prince(i know, tell that to mr.prince right) in a year still be messing around with me?"
• The betas on the scene still were dumbfounded, one even wanted our alpha "to fight for her". Roosh has some wisdom for him here.
• The modern woman has no capacity for even a shred of remorse. I mean at this stage most girls play the "he's my past, i'm a new person now" card to rationalize(hamstering) her deeds but our lil girl isn't even doing that. There she's secured a beta buck somewhere halfway across the planet and here she sucks alpha cock.

That's for now. Happy married to priya and to her prince to(i guess).